Book a Clarity Conversation
Clarity Conversations with Jon
Private support for boundaries, family pressure, estrangement, marriage strain, and the question, “What do I do now?”
Why people book
Sometimes a post, podcast episode, book, or workshop gives you language for what you are carrying.
But sometimes your situation is too personal, too layered, or too emotionally complicated to process alone.
A Clarity Conversation is a private session designed to help you slow down, untangle the pressure, name what is happening, and discern your next faithful step.
Two ways to meet
Which session is right for you?
Both options are designed to help you leave with more clarity, steadiness, and a thoughtful next step.
What this is and what this is not
Clarity Conversations are private, educational conversations to help you gain perspective and language for what you are experiencing. They are not therapy, counseling, crisis support, or a substitute for licensed professional care. Jon and Ashley Lefrandt are not licensed therapists, psychologists, or counselors, and they do not diagnose, treat, or provide clinical recommendations. Communications are not protected by any legal privilege. No specific outcome is promised or guaranteed. By booking a session, you agree to our Terms of Service (leavethencleave.com/terms). Cancellations must be made at least 24 hours in advance; late cancellations and no-shows are not refundable.
30-minute session
30 Minute Clarity Conversation
Focused guidance for a specific situation
These shorter sessions are designed for people who have one particular situation they want help thinking through.
Before the session, you’ll receive a short intake form where you can share the background and context of what you’re navigating. This allows us to:
- Understand the key dynamics ahead of time
- Avoid spending valuable session time on backstory
- Use the full conversation to focus on insight, clarity, and next steps
In other words, when we meet, we can get right to what matters most.
50-minute session
50 Minute Clarity Conversation
Deeper support for a more layered situation
These sessions are designed for people who need more space to unpack what they’re carrying and want to work through a more complex or layered situation. This is a good fit if you are navigating:
- Family estrangement or low/no contact
- Marriage strain caused by extended family pressure
- Spiritual guilt or religious pressure around boundaries
- Reconciliation questions
- Ongoing emotional manipulation, triangulation, or loyalty conflicts
- A painful decision where you need help discerning the next faithful step
Choose the 30-minute Clarity Conversation if you have one specific issue you want help thinking through.
Choose the 50-minute Clarity Conversation if your situation is more layered, emotionally complex, or connected to a larger family or marriage dynamic.
What this is
- A private, thoughtful conversation
- A place to organize what you are carrying
- A way to gain language and perspective
- A space to consider your next step with more clarity
What this is not
- Therapy
- Legal advice
- Crisis support
- A place where we tell you what to do
- A guarantee of reconciliation, estrangement, or any specific outcome
“Before the session I felt anxious and unsure how to move forward. After our conversation I felt less anxious, more hopeful, and finally at peace. Jon’s compassionate wisdom helped me see my situation more clearly and leave with a real next step.”— Anonymous Client, New Jersey
How booking works
Simple, private, and on your schedule.
- 1Choose your session
Pick the 30- or 50-minute conversation and a time that works for you.
- 2Watch for your confirmation
After booking, you’ll receive a confirmation email with a Google link and a few optional questions to help us understand your situation.
- 3Meet with Jon
We use the time to focus on insight, clarity, and a thoughtful next step.
If you are having any issues with booking an appointment, please reach out to us directly at jon@leavethencleave.com. If you are looking at shorter or longer appointments, we are happy to consider that and can share pricing via email. View Session Agreement
Not ready for one-on-one?
Other ways to get support
Workshops
Learn in a group setting
If you’d rather learn in a group setting, visit Cleave Events for upcoming live workshops and workshop recordings.
View workshops and events →New: Support groups
Small support groups, led by Jon
Faith-centered groups capped at 15 people, plus a weekly live Q&A with Jon and Ashley and the Christlike Boundaries Book Club, all inside the Cleave Community. Try it free for 14 days, then $14.99/month at the founders rate.
See the support groups →Schedule a Clarity Conversation
You don’t have to sort this out alone.
This is a thoughtful space, not a crisis hotline or therapy replacement. Many people begin with a 30-minute clarity session to simply talk through what they’re facing.
Clarity Conversations with Jon
Private support for boundaries, family pressure, estrangement, marriage strain, and the question, “What do I do now?”
Sometimes a post, podcast episode, book, or workshop gives you language for what you are carrying.
But sometimes your situation is too personal, too layered, or too emotionally complicated to process alone.
A Clarity Conversation is a private session designed to help you slow down, untangle the pressure, name what is happening, and discern your next faithful step.
What this is and what this is not
Clarity Conversations are private, educational conversations to help you gain perspective and language for what you are experiencing. They are not therapy, counseling, crisis support, or a substitute for licensed professional care. Jon and Ashley Lefrandt are not licensed therapists, psychologists, or counselors, and they do not diagnose, treat, or provide clinical recommendations. Communications are not protected by any legal privilege. No specific outcome is promised or guaranteed. By booking a session, you agree to our Terms of Service (leavethencleave.com/terms). Cancellations must be made at least 24 hours in advance; late cancellations and no-shows are not refundable.
30 Minute Clarity Conversation
Focused guidance for a specific situation
These shorter sessions are designed for people who have one particular situation they want help thinking through.
Before the session, you’ll receive a short intake form where you can share the background and context of what you’re navigating.
This allows us to:
• Understand the key dynamics ahead of time
• Avoid spending valuable session time on backstory
• Use the full conversation to focus on insight, clarity, and next steps
In other words, when we meet, we can get right to what matters most.
Length: 30 minutes
Investment: $65
50 Minute Clarity Conversation
These sessions are designed for people who need more space to unpack what they’re carrying and want to work through a more complex or layered situation.
This is a good fit if you are navigating:
• Family estrangement or low/no contact
• Marriage strain caused by extended family pressure
• Spiritual guilt or religious pressure around boundaries
• Reconciliation questions
• Ongoing emotional manipulation, triangulation, or loyalty conflicts
• A painful decision where you need help discerning the next faithful step
Length: 50 minutes
Investment: $180
Deeper support for a more layered situation
Which Session Is Right For You?
Choose the 30-minute Clarity Conversation if you have one specific issue you want help thinking through.
Choose the 50-minute Clarity Conversation if your situation is more layered, emotionally complex, or connected to a larger family or marriage dynamic.
Both options are designed to help you leave with more clarity, steadiness, and a thoughtful next step.
A private, thoughtful conversation
A place to organize what you are carrying
A way to gain language and perspective
A space to consider your next step with more clarity
What this is
Therapy
Legal advice
Crisis support
A place where we tell you what to do
A guarantee of reconciliation, estrangement, or any specific outcome
What this is not
Schedule a Clarity Conversation
This is a thoughtful space, not a crisis hotline or therapy replacement. Many people begin with a 30-minute clarity session to simply talk through what they’re facing.
“Before the session I felt anxious and unsure how to move forward. After our conversation I felt less anxious, more hopeful, and finally at peace. Jon’s compassionate wisdom helped me see my situation more clearly and leave with a real next step.”
After booking, you'll receive a confirmation email with a Google link and a few optional questions to help us understand your situation.
If you are having any issues with booking an appointment, please reach out to us directly at jon@leavethencleave.com. If you are looking at shorter or longer appointments, we are happy to consider that and can share pricing via email.
Looking for a live workshop instead?
If you’d rather learn in a group setting, visit Cleave Events for upcoming live workshops and workshop recordings.