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Surviving the Holidays Without Losing Yourself Masterclass
How to navigate family pressure, guilt, expectations, boundaries, and conflict — without becoming bitter, blowing up your relationships, or abandoning yourself.
This holiday season
You don’t have to lose yourself to get through the holidays.
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- About 35 minutes
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The Holidays Don’t Have to Cost You Your Peace
What if this could be the year you stop bracing for it?
- If you’re already dreading the invitation, the group text, or the question about where you’ll be this year…
- If one family gathering can undo months of progress…
- If you’re grieving an empty chair, or a table you no longer have a seat at…
- If you spend the season keeping everyone else comfortable and reach January feeling like a stranger to yourself…
This free masterclass is for you.
Whether you’re estranged from family, stepping back from a hard relationship, trying to protect your marriage, or simply tired of the pressure, this training will help you walk into the season with a clearer plan.
This is not about cutting people off.
And it’s not about pretending everything is fine for the sake of the family photo.
It’s about learning how to love truthfully, hold healthy boundaries, and move through the holidays with strength, honesty, and peace.
You don’t have to choose between keeping the peace and keeping yourself.
Wherever you are this season
One Masterclass for Every Side of the Table
Holiday pressure looks different in every family. The guilt, the expectations, and the old patterns can feel the same.
Maybe you’re an adult child deciding whether to go home at all.
Maybe you’re a parent facing an empty chair and a quiet phone.
Maybe you’re a spouse caught between two families.
Maybe you’ll be at the table this year, and you just want to get through dinner without losing your footing.
The Surviving the Holidays Masterclass will help you understand the pressure, decide what you can and can’t carry this year, and move through the season without becoming bitter, blowing up your relationships, or abandoning yourself.
This masterclass is faith-based, and people of every faith and background are welcome here.
Inside the masterclass
Watch This FREE Masterclass To Discover:
- What the Holiday Pressure Cycle is, and why the same conflict keeps showing up every year
- Five keys to a more peaceful holiday season, even if your family doesn’t change
- How to navigate guilt and expectations without giving in or shutting down
- How to hold boundaries with love, including when someone pushes back
- How to handle conflict without becoming bitter or blowing up your relationships
- How to protect your peace, your marriage, and your faith through the season
Why this matters
If the holidays bring up pressure, guilt, distance, or grief, you deserve a plan for this season that honors both truth and love.
This free masterclass will give you practical, faith-based tools to help you walk through the holidays with clearer boundaries, less guilt, and more peace, without forcing closeness, ignoring painful patterns, or betraying yourself.
This Free Masterclass Is Available For A Limited Time.
About Jon and Ashley
Jon and Ashley Lefrandt are the creators of Leave Then Cleave, a faith-based platform helping individuals, couples, and families navigate boundaries, family pressure, in-law strain, estrangement, and repair where possible with clarity, courage, and Christlike compassion.
Ashley holds a degree from Brigham Young University in Marriage, Family, and Human Development, and brings a deep understanding of family systems, relationships, parenting, and human connection to this work.
Jon is an author, educator, coach, and founder of ForGrief.com, a grief-support platform that has served families navigating some of life’s most tender and painful moments. Through his work in grief care, coaching, and family-boundary education, Jon helps people find language, clarity, and courage when relationships become complicated.
Together, Jon and Ashley bring both professional experience and deeply personal perspective to the conversation. After walking through painful family dynamics in their own story, they began creating resources for people who are trying to honor family without losing their peace, their marriage, their faith, or themselves.
Their work centers on a simple belief: healthy boundaries are not the enemy of healthy relationships. Sometimes they are the first honest step toward relationships that can actually become safer, clearer, and more loving.
Through books, workshops, coaching, podcast conversations, and online resources, Leave Then Cleave helps people move away from guilt, pressure, and confusion — and toward truth, peace, repair where possible, and healthier love.
Please note: Leave Then Cleave provides faith-based education, coaching, and practical relationship guidance. This masterclass is not therapy, legal advice, or a substitute for professional mental health care.